I'm here venting so I don't freaking lose it at him. I'm going to have to have a conversation with him, in 24-72 hrs obviously, but for now I just need to get it out.
I am so sick of taking the high road ... yet I know I will. It's what is right by them. I have never, nor will I ever, say anything negative about their Daddy or his skanky ho to the kids . Of course they are ok with OW, she's a freaking kindergarten teacher. That's not the point. He is absolutely exposing them to too much too soon. I've seen separation agreements that ban introductions to OPs until the divorce is final for God's sake, and we're not even legally separated. The kids have only been dealing with this since they began moving back and forth the first of September. ARRRRRRGGGGGGG.
I'm going to type up what I want to say to him and post it before I do so you guys can help me pick it apart.
Ummmm ... will you bring your bat? (I'm only half kidding).
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc