Great episode! I understand what you are going through, but you have to remain firm if you wish to reconcile your M.
I have two sons from my 1st M and they were about your kids age when we D'd. Although, my 1st ex and I could not reconcile the M we agreed that we would work together to ensure that out two sons would have a happy healthy childood. For the most part we have been successful even when I remarried and now going through my current sitch.
I have or should say we have two very happy teenage boys both working on Eagle projects in Boy Scouts. So your kids will prevail as long as you and your W understand that maybe the M failed, but your R is important for your kids.
I understand about the apartment. I hate mine and call it the prison. Nice homes in CT are outrageous.
