XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

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Following on from the above, I had a text from XH during last week whilst I was in SA. It said:

'How is granny.'
I found this very interesting as he refered to her in the personal sense, not as my granny. XH has known her for 21 years as well and used to call her granny. Perhaps he is feeling a little left out - not sure?

I responded with just all the medical stuff.

He next response almost blew me away:
'Really sorry to hear that. That is the circle of life though. She has been a fabulous granny. Try to remember all the good memories. Take care. Send my regards to everyone. My thoughts are all with you during this difficult time.'

I didnt know what to make of this text. It was the kind of response he would have sent about 2 years ago - maybe even not. This kind of concern was always reserved for everyone else. I did know that OW was out of town so his texts were not being reviewed by her.

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