So..........my H is buying a house.

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I know there is more than I know. More than I will ever know. Not looking for x-ray glasses, just asked because you made the suggestion.

I don't expect to know/learn anything after he makes the move. I do know that he's not packed anything, but expects to be out of is current rental and moved in to the new house Thursday, assuming he can close tomorrow.

I haven't heard from my L on whether I should sign the document he needs to close. Part of me was surprised that he admitted to being married when he made the offer on the house and applied for the loan-----not that I think it means anything, and I guess I shouldn't be surprised that he wouldn't commit fraud (since he is a lawyer). However, in a 100 million years I could never expect this man to break our marriage vows.....so a little white lie (or rounding up as he calls it)about his current marrital state wouldn't surprise me.

He has recently seemed more at ease/at peace when dealing with me - with the exception of an incident last week relating to him asking oldest daughter to help him make plans with youngest daughter (won't bother with details). So...I have thought maybe he's making progress, it just really stings to know that he's moving on....buying a house, to make HIS home. AND to add insult to injury the description of the property on-line sounds like a dream - something that I would love to have for our family.

BUT that is not my reality. I have a very nice home, for the present. I hope to be able to keep it until my youngest graduates - that's 6 more years - at least that was my hope when thinking it was important to keep the family home for my kids while they were living there. Now, they will have another house that they can call home.