I have been re-reading this trying to figure out what to say to you.

You will continue to stand, until the pain of standing is more than the pain of leaving.

I know this is hard and I wish he would snap out of it.
I know you wish the same thing but that is not the way this works.
But I have to think that there is more going on behind the scenes that you can not see.

Continue on your path, the story has not yet ended!

(((((((HUGS)))))))))))