And this usually only happens when the LBS has really moved on. You have to decide for yourself if this person is someone you can trust and live with and potentially go through this again in the future. You're in a good place to make a clear choice here. Personally I don't think you need to indulge him at all. I'd tell him you just don't see it happening, it's just too late for that. If he's honest about his feelings etc then he'll make changes you can trust and perhaps you guys can start over slooowly in the future but of course don't tell him this nor day dream about it because all this is a big 'if'.
Do I really have to bring a culinary item? I *was* bringing the whip cream.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again