spend some time with me and "have a discussion because she doesn't like this and it doesn't feel right". She wouldn't elaborate. I'm not sure what is going on now.
What's the matter? She hasn't found Prince Charming the Sugar Daddy yet? I don't think she's trying hard enough
Hahah! I AM the prince charming sugar daddy. No lie.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
Dude, after all this you are not sure what is going on?
Heres whats going on...
You are pulling away from your wife and seeing someone else... She knows this and is going to try to give you some small glimmer of hope (that isnt real) by giving you crumbs.
Cmon John, seriously man. Open your damn mind.
And that whole thing about "needing" someone to take care of you when you are sick is pathetic. I'm sorry it is.
Be a man and take care of yourself and stop needing a woman (whoever she is) to constantly validate you.
W offered to give me money and I said no. She said she just got paid and could give me some money for food/doctor for the week. I absolutely refused. I told her that it was really nice of her to offer. I broke down a little bit, probably because of all the combination of pain killers and crap I was taking and cried on the phone a little bit and let her know that I just wanted someone to take care of me. She said she would come over and take care of me - but I told her that at the end of the day that wasn't what I wanted, I wanted someone to be there for me in the way I want which is something she couldn't do.
So I called professor lady instead. She came and took care of me last night. It felt good.
You declined the help and then cried about the help, then called for more help from elsewhere.
Do you have any idea how incredibly weak that is? You are already growing codependency after just a few dates.
Next time call your parents.
Dump the cat lady - she's obviously not healthy for you.
John, You need to listen to konfuseeed. That is dead on advice. You need to stop telling your wife that kind of stuff. BE A MAN!!!! You sounded so pathetic, you wanted your mommy!!
Do not talk to your wife about anything, she knows how to play you and you will be played again.
Alright, I get the point. But the doctor told me that I HAD to have someone stay with me because of my condition and that I had a possibility of a closed airway, so maybe I caved a little to the W. I agree with that. I was high as sh~t on pain meds and felt veneurable. Oh well.
No dependency on the lady professor. Seriously. I just called her up and told her about my day and SHE offered to come over. She pursued me. She said she wanted to come and take care of me. I said I would probably be fine, but she insisted. Yeah, she's pursuing.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
whenever I start to think my sitch is batchit crazy, all I need to do is wait an hour or so and voila! John pops in with a post to make me feel better.
