Either my presence is contributing to her staying in the fog, or it's causing it. She's said that she "can't see the forest for the trees," that she can't separate her feelings for me as a father to our daughters, from her feelings for me because everytime she turns around, I'm there.
Pin? Pin Cushion? Don't take these arrows.
If you can't stand up to her you can't stand up for her my friend.
She wants you to stay right?
Then what is all this crap about she can't see you as a husband and not a father????
Your reasons to leave are for HER?
About HER?
HER choices?
If you leave you confirm all the wrong ideas she has about you.
Unless you believe you are those things.
All the wrong ideas she has about M.
Unless you believe them too.
All the wrong ideas she has about herself.
Unless you believe it too.
All the wrong ideas about what love means.
Unless you are not capable of it either.
Somewhere along the way you got lost.
She got lost.
One of you has to light the way.
Your the one that's here so I am going to go out on a limb and say that you have this in you Pin.
Which takes more courage in your choices. To accept what is dished out
or
forge your own way because of what you believe. What you believe in yourself.
Whether you gain from it or not.
Whether it turns your way or not.
Whether she wants to reconcile or divorce.
We get what we give Pin.
Why did you leave your first M?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
