The first thing is for you to consult with a lawyer and find out what your rights are. I almost gave up everything until I saw a lawyer and he straightened out my ignorance of the law.
I can't stress this enough. In my state, leaving the marital residence does hurt any attempt at custody and my lawyer told me to stay put no matter what. I'm not sure where you live or what the laws say.
That's what you need a lawyer for. They usually give you a free consultation so search for the best one you can get. Mine is costing me, but I'm getting what I pay for and he's top notch.
I'm not sure if she can just take the kids just like that. I doubt she can, but again, you need to see a lawyer about it.
I got the same spiel about not being considerate, blah, blah, blah...as if she was just entitled to the house and the kids.
Originally Posted By: ShockedOne
Get a lawyer! Go talk to lawyers all over your area, ask every single one of them what lawyer they would hire if they were going to divorce, and talk to those as well. You need legal help NOW! Do not let her get those kids out of the house without being legally told she can, and DO NOT move out yourself.
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