I told her i was just messing with her for her not to get mad that we could go back to talking about what we were talking about and she says that's not a good idea she should have stopped it earlier. I said sorry for pissing you off.
Why did you feel the need to appologize?
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
Ok, I'm walking. I left her with the last text. When she asked that question about whether I'm going with this friend or that friend and I said neither, should I have not done that? I feel like she thinks I'm going with some girl and that made her mad. It was so obvious how quick her mood changed and she made sure to use the word friend in regards to me several times. Is it a bad thing to make her feel a little jealous like this if that is the correct term to use?
I feel like she thinks I'm going with some girl and that made her mad.
Mind reading.
Originally Posted By: Db9
Is it a bad thing to make her feel a little jealous like this if that is the correct term to use?
Why do you care?
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
I told her i was just messing with her for her not to get mad that we could go back to talking about what we were talking about and she says that's not a good idea she should have stopped it earlier. I said sorry for pissing you off.
Why did you feel the need to appologize?
at first I didn't. We were just getting along and I guess I didn't want to mess that up at the time.
The other day my wife made a comment in a text that we were just friends and that we should only have "friend" conversations, which basically means nothing sexually charged. I've thought about it since then and I know im not wrong to not like being called her friend. It really seems like an insult to me. Other than the OM affair that happened back in January which my wife said she wouldn't talk to him anymore now and even called him right in front of me and told him not to communicate with her and if he did she would tell me, I haven't really noticed a lot of CB. But this seems like CB to me. I had decided to be catnip like coach would say, but part of me really wonders if I should just let her go instead. I guess both of these things can be used together, but I want to know what some of you think. My wife and I are both civil with this hole process but I would like to hear a few different strategies others might take if they were in my position.
