She then said that she wanted a divorce eventually after she got back on her feet(ie find a job, get her credentials to teach) but in the mean time she wants to enjoy life, be happy, be free, go out with her friends and date other men.
I got the exact same thing from my W a couple days ago. Considder yourself lucky your W is still in the house. My recommendation is to say:
I understand and I agree. But I don't think it is healthy for us or the kids that you stay here when you want out of the marriage. I suggest you find an apartment this week, and I will begin to consult lawyers.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011