Well I had another test this morning. I turned onto his street to drop off the card, and he drove past me. I pulled in his lane way and put the card on the front seat of the car like normal. As i was walking back to my car he pulled in the driveway. Before he could even get out of the car, I hopped in mine and put it in reverse so he knew i was leaving. I did send him a text and told him i didnt want a confrontation, if he had anything to say he could do it via text. He didnt respond, just moved his car so i could back out of his driveway and leave. He followed me a couple of blocks before he turned off.
I then sent my wife a msg explaining what happened this morning. She didnt respond for some time. It was only after he texted her and asked her to meet him for lunch. She asked if we had an words, i said no and sent her the text i sent him. At first she was very upset. I couldnt understand, and told her that she knows me better than anyone else and that for me to back down was the hardest thing for me to do.
She sent me a text saying that after she went for a walk she realized just how strong i was for doing that and that ift was a very positive thing. She thanked me for my actions. She asked why i thought he came back. I told her 4 things, to make sure i wasnt damaging anything at his house, she was okay, to make sure i wasnt going into his home to bang his girlfriend and to have a confrontation with me. I said it was a territorial thing. She agreed.
So I guess, i will see if she still comes for dinner tonight and see what happens. I do know that my patience is getting very thin for this whole game. I dont know how long I can continue with this, but for now, i will vent here and keep a positive outlook.
Thanks for all those that read and give me input. I am not in a postion to respond to ohter just yet, But I am reading everyday. As i progress, i will start posting.
