First off - i try and put this as softly as I can.
STOP FUC*ING LOOKING AT YOUR WIFE!
Okay, I hope you get my subtle message.
As for what does not having him on MSN messenger mean?
Well, if the moons align and it is 87 degrees in Alaska and if True grit is wear pink today ....well then that means she is close.
Do you see what I am trying to show you?
How long do you think this is going to take?
How long do you think you can last?
How long before Mental starting paying attention to mental and just be?
Honestly, dude it could mean anything. In my personal sitch...my W has been pretty damn calm, pretty friendly and overall just kinda of nice (i.e. no venom)...did I forget to mention that she is still with OM? Oh, yeah...she is...
So what do YOU think it means that he is no longer on msn messenger or better yet - why does it matter to YOU RIGHT NOW?
It probably matters cause your changes are maybe still for her as opposed to you. Cause your changes are a tactic to get her back. Maybe?
Mental - please take my advice...go live your life. Go be the man you want to be - if she wants YOU back in HER life - trust me, she will tell you or YOU will know. You will not have to figure it out. Let me give you a more graphic example.....
Ever go out on a date with someone...maybe even your w...you ever wondered if she wanted you to kiss her? I bet you knew she did, didn't ya...ya knew...ya just knew...AND then ya probably reached over and planted on on her. I bet she reciprocated.
Ya see, ya knew and she kinda let ya know. Well IMO, this will work the same way...you will just know.
AND when you do...and when you live YOUR life...you realize that
YOU DECIDE to reach over and kiss her -
YOU DECIDE
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans