I was looking more for evidence that what she was doing -- her style, her pursuing, etc. -- was a turn-off for him, as you stated. E-mails, text messages, voice recordings, credible third-party witnesses, etc. How do you know she's turning him off?

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)