One more note. I suspect that the OW is pushing, pulling, and pursuing. I have found the hard way just how well that works with my H. IT DOESN'T WORK AT ALL!
I think that if she is behaving the way I think she is, she is really just pushing my H to come back to me instead.
I know who this woman is, and she ain't got nothin' on me. : )
HFZ,
I admire your chutzpah, but from what I've learned about infidelity in the past 90 days, I'd caution you. Lots of people report how their spouses "changed" during their affairs, and are suddenly attracted to new kinds of music, movies, TV shows, clothing, and NEW KINDS OF PEOPLE AND VALUES that they would have been TOTALLY opposed to before.
You have to consider your husband the way he's ACTING NOW, not the way he NORMALLY acts -- and deal with him accordingly.
Do you have any evidence that the OW's tactics are backfiring with your husband?
