WAW 20 Years. Divorce to maybe possible R

[Starsky309]

Yes. See my 15 previous posts to you. It's all in there.

Who are you who are so wise in the ways of science?



Snakes and snails...

Some are wiser than others, TG. I see you are counted among The Wise.

Starsky

[Pensacolabroken]

Okay here is my current Situation

1. Issued boundry she must end contact with OM.
2. She agreed. With the exception of TKD where it is all group focused and she agreed to not pair with him.
3. She agreed to NOT contact him and to disclose when he contacts her via phone or email
4. She also agreed to not talk to him outside TKD

TKD is critical for her. My son and her both take it from the same studio. Same Master. This Master is aware of the OM and WAW contact.

Now I think I can start to work on myself by GAL and LRT while WAW decides if she wants to work it or not.. so this is a stabilatization/detach phase for me.

[Pensacolabroken]

so the first hurdle was breaking the EA and I appear to have been successful on the face of it.

[Starsky309]

so the first hurdle was breaking the EA and I appear to have been successful on the face of it.

Trust, but verify.


Starsky

[TimeHeals]

TKD is critical for her. My son and her both take it from the same studio. Same Master. This Master is aware of the OM and WAW contact.

Interesting. Surely this runs counter to his philosophy? What is he doing about this?

"Tae Kwon Do strives to develop the positive aspects of an individual's personality: Respect, Courtesy, Goodness, Trustworthiness, Loyalty, Humility, Courage, Patience, Integrity, Perseverance, Self-control, an Indomitable Spirit and a sense of responsibility to help and respect all forms of life. "

[Pensacolabroken]

Starsky,

agreed. Thanks.

Time,

GREAT points... I think the Master may have evaluated their conduct and if they are being correct and she is being honest, he is using those same principles to hold them each accountable. It is also possible, those tenents mean something now that the EA is out in the open... My WAW has admitted she was DEEPLY embarrassed when I contacted the Master and dimed them both out.

this could work in my favor.

[Starsky309]

TKD is critical for her. My son and her both take it from the same studio. Same Master. This Master is aware of the OM and WAW contact.

Interesting. Surely this runs counter to his philosophy? What is he doing about this?

"Tae Kwon Do strives to develop the positive aspects of an individual's personality: Respect, Courtesy, Goodness, Trustworthiness, Loyalty, Humility, Courage, Patience, Integrity, Perseverance, Self-control, an Indomitable Spirit and a sense of responsibility to help and respect all forms of life. "

Ouch!!!

[Pensacolabroken]

Marriage counselor office called they have an opening for today after work. this conflicts with Son and Wife TKD. We also have a Friday appointment.

I told the Office to Call my wife.. they called back and said Wife said she couldnt make it.

Not going to read too much into it. One, she is pissed at me still. two, both need to work on form for this level. three.. she may need some decompression from all the marriage talk.

So not I monitor for results Wait and Watch.

[Starsky309]

Not going to read too much into it. One, she is pissed at me still. two, both need to work on form for this level. three.. she may need some decompression from all the marriage talk.

"Not going to read too much into it, so I made a detailed list of three different things it might mean."



Starsky

[Pensacolabroken]

um yea See your point. mind reading.