And if me staying around is a part of the reason she's in the fog, then moving out will remove some of it.
How do you know this ^^^^? You don't Pin and what makes you think that removing yourself from it will be better?
Either my presence is contributing to her staying in the fog, or it's causing it. She's said that she "can't see the forest for the trees," that she can't separate her feelings for me as a father to our daughters, from her feelings for me because everytime she turns around, I'm there. And that she feels responsible for my happiness, a responsibility that she's felt since we were married. Said that when she married me, she thought that was normal and wanted that role, now it's stifling.
I can't convince her that her feelings are wrong, because they're what she feels.
I can only find my own happiness, and hope that she sees I'm happy without her. Then she won't have to carry that burden (in her mind).
