Yeah, they could ban every last one of us with differing opinions, and then things would be... homogenous anyway Adopt a "bo peep" attitude of denial: "They really love me, but they are lost in a fog, and that's why they are divorcing me and screwing other people, but someday the fog will lift", and unfortunately, when you tell people there may be hope and that the future isn't written yet, they are likely to hear it as "just go into denial, and everything will be OK. After all, an alien took over my spouse, and now they are lost in a fog", but all I have to do is wait and act as if everything will be OK, and it will be.
OK, so I actually DO believe my W is in a fog, she really IS doing things she shouldn't be proud of, and I don't think she is happy. I also could see her totally repenting and asking for forgivness or putting 6 months behind her, acting as if nothing happened and slowly coming back. I'll be living in another state and hopefully on my 7th or 8th "rebound" relationship by that point.
So is your point that people must "abandon all hope ye who enter here" or is it that you worry people who have hope just sit around waiting and not GALing. Cause I have hope, but I'm also a realist. I also see it as one of those rare opportunities reinvent the parts of me I see as flawed.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
