Excellent words my friend and I couldn't agree more. May have taken me quite some time to realize it, however once I learned this lesson, I was much better off.
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
Adopt a "bo peep" attitude of denial: "They really love me, but they are lost in a fog, and that's why they are divorcing me and screwing other people, but someday the fog will lift", and unfortunately, when you tell people there may be hope and that the future isn't written yet, they are likely to hear it as "just go into denial, and everything will be OK. After all, an alien took over my spouse, and now they are lost in a fog", but all I have to do is wait and act as if everything will be OK, and it will be.
To think I actually took this approach when I first came here.
I am so glad I didn't last in this "reality'" for to long. Nothing like a little justification for your spouse cheating on you.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
