You're reacting to things that aren't there. The myth is what was quoted about "just" falling out of love, and the recommended response to just "accept and move on." Nothing about what was written in the last post was mentioned.
Regarding the myth - MWD is quite clear; have you read what she wrote in DR? Reading what she writes about "The Marriage Map" is also useful.
And there's nothing wrong with something being "not-DB" - there are things I advocate that are not-DB. Since this thread is about DB and not-DB, I think it is important to put things in the correct category.
