I thought so. But we are not sure if H is really having this. H doesn't think he is. H was never there for me emotionally in the past, always ran away from things he never wanted to deal with. his whole family is that way.
He cheated on me and I was willing to take him back. I do love him and realize he is unhappy and I was willing to work on us. But he wasn't.
He keeps saying there is no future. He only wants to be friends. I believe him.
So now what ? Again, how do I act ? 180 or being a friend?