Alright, when I talked to her about the possibility of her watching them at the house she said she didn't know if it was a good idea. She felt like she is making progress to move forward and that this might set her back ten steps. I didn't push I good her that if it makes her uncomfortable then I would figure something else out. She kept saying that if I couldn't figure something else out to call her back, but I said it's ok I understand how you feel about being at the house I'll just figure something else out. She had to pick up a phone call and said she would call men back.