I'm slowly starting to get that detaching isn't necessarily being completely unresponsive The hardest part I'm having is finding balance between all the concepts. Like leading vs. following. Or letting her go vs. Asking her out to attract her to me.
Letting her go can be done is different ways. Some hardcore DB'ers claim that going completely dark will speed up the process. There is always a risk doing so as well. You need to "read" your W and check the temperature when making those decisions.
Things started turning around for me when I told her that I did not need her and I was fine by leaving her.
She started pursuing and now I am working on reconnecting and being attractive again.
This is not to say that if the limbo won't stop, I won't have to move afterall.
