Nope nothing has changed, no definitive actions being made. What I figure I need to do is make some goals. Set something concrete to work towards and maybe I won't feel so stuck.
I honestly don't feel like I have a clue on what a 'normal' relationship is so where do I start. What is normal?
Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."
Hey Doodi, Hope you are taking care of you and finding some peace. I wrote to you earlier in your sitch as Bridge.. have changed my profile & name to better reflect my life now.
Hope to hear how things are going soon.
Peace Say Lavee (aka- Bridge)
- Mom to 2 wonderful young adults S20 & D16 - Best friend to myself - Friend to many - Future partner to 1 amazing man out there, somewhere
it appears she has actually focused on her marriage and that is good. I am sure things will continue to be rough but I think working on it as opposed to sitting on these forums daily is a benefit. Do you all not agree? anyway, hand tough doodi and I am sure all will work out.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out