What sort of example am I setting my kids, if just because something looks hard and impossible, just give it up and walkaway, sorry thats not me.
What sort of example are you setting for your kids if you keep pursuing something that is gone?
Personally I believe the better example is being a strong confident father that focuses on your kids, not your W.
We all want you to get you M back. But there is a time to face facts. Have you made a list of goals for DBing? Things that will give you confindence that your sitch is imporving? MWD suggests this. What are they? Why not tell us publically. Give us five things that you feel will indicate your W is moving toward the marriage.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011