Sometimes, the spouse just doesn't love you anymore.
Accept it, forgive and move on.
Honestly, that is the advice that I want to give 90% of the posters here. I hurt for the children and the innocent bystanders, but the LBS can move through the grief stages then start a new life...a happier one IME.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
