I just find there's a lot of talk about working internally on one's self.
This is fine if there is no obsessive or addictive behavior happening your WS's part..
This is fine...no matter what. I cannot think of a situation that one would not benefit from an increased self-awareness and self-knowledge. Since we know that both parties contribute to the coming apart of a marriage, even if a wayward spouse is in an A, addicted to drugs, or mentally ill ~~~ working on oneself will only benefit the sitch overall.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712