I know right? But what really irks me are the women, but maybe that's cause I'm a guy.
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How long does this take ?
No one has that answer, no one. The real question is how long can YOU 'stand' this? See that one you can answer and hopefully you should be able to surprise yourself down the road.
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How do I know for certain if he is in a MLC?
Well, no one here should be telling you if he is or not, we aren't professionals. Cadet gave you some links to read up on, and you more than likely have some time to kill.
MLC is for you to determine, not trying to take the easy way out but it falls on you, or you can go elsewhere and have people tell you there is no such thing, see thats an easy answer.
You have been married 29 years, and while he is hurting you like a stomach full of borken glass, 29 years should be worthy of some time invested by you to read up.
Pick up Divorce Remedy, and read it.
If you decide it is an MLC, I'd highly recommend posting here. Otherwise you'll get some rock solid advice elsewhere on these boards, just not really geared toward dealing with a spouse who is f-ing crazy in the head.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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