No one is answering my question ....How should my husband act towards me if he wants to reconcile? First of all, he wasn't patient with me and my meltdowns. There have only been 3 but after the first one, he said he wasn't coming back to me just wanted to be friends. He doesn't call or email me unless he has to ask me something. I was initiating the calls, emails, the "dates". But I have stopped. He never said he wasn't going to cheat on me again. He was still lying to me about his where he was and he had contact with his OW and never told me. Granted they work together but I found out from another mutual friend. The mutual friend said The OW went back to her former boyfriend. How should he act towards me if he really wants me ? Shouldn't I be a priority? Shouldn't he be honest with me ? Shouldn't he be spending more time with me than with his buddies? He was still going to a bar with young workers and customers. ( he knew this place upset me because I found photos, he was being very insensitive to my feelings.) Am I right to expect him to change those behaviors ? How can I tell if he really wants me and the marriage we had?
