Sweetie, I'm so sorry.I know those words hurt a great deal.
We can give our opinions, but it is your life and you must do what you feel you should.
I just hope that you did not write that with the expectation that he would react favorably.
Be prepared for him to be angry because once again IB isnt hearing him.
So, now you said again your feelings on the subject. It is in writing. No need to say them again, right?
IB, I know that you cannot believe this is the man you married. And in many ways, it isnt.
But you love him. And since you do, you want him to be happy. So, now you need to let him figure this all out for himself.
There arent any words to him that will help it along. There arent any actions that will either. This is a journey and he needs to go through all the steps and do all the work if he has a chance of coming out the other side. You cant push him through, you cant change his mind.
Nor would you want to. Not until and if he is ready.
So, this is another part of the journey for you, too. Life throws us many curves. It's how we deal with them that makes all the difference.
Become the person you want to be. Who do you admire? Why? What traits do they have that you want to work towards?
This is an amazing opportunity. Sieze it. I promise, not matter what, you wont regret that you did.
