Pookie, I just finished reading you original thread there was a lot if great stuff in there from everyone on the board. Most of this stuff is sinking in, I'm glad for everyones opinions.
It seemed like you and your wife never lost contact during the whole process. I guess that's why I have such a hard time leading. I'm slowly starting to get that detaching isn't necessarily being completely unresponsive The hardest part I'm having is finding balance between all the concepts. Like leading vs. following. Or letting her go vs. Asking her out to attract her to me.
