Help her pack, file for D and ask for exclusive use of the house. Don't tell her what you are going to do. I wish I had done that, would have made my life the last 5 months much simpler.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712