Originally Posted By: pinhead
No, I'm calling the shots for me. I've decided to move out instead of living with her in a pseudo-marriage.
If you already made up your mind, why are you asking for other peoples opinions?

I mean I'll give you mine.
YOU ARE MAKING A HUGE MISTAKE.

You should stay in the house and if she wants to leave that will be her choice.
Once you leave, besides being abandonment, there may be no coming back.
It maybe a one time choice with no reversal.

It does not follow your marriage vows.
When things get tough in my marriage I will not work on it and just leave.

NOPE, sorry you need to start taking time and forget about her and work on yourself.

It can be done in the same house, even in the same bed.

What kind of message are you sending to your children?
When things get tough MOM and DAD run away!
BAD!!!!!!!!! example of being a parent!