WAW 20 Years. Divorce to maybe possible R

[gutwrenching]

As for the FB...Not to burst your boundary bubble, however there are ways to "hide" friends...My H did it with the OW...Verify before bringing it up.

Not to beat this point to death, but I agree the unfriending means nothing if not coupled with transparency. My W unfriendd and blocked OM...then they exchanged FB passwords so they could see everything and of course created new email accounts...