So my wife spent Firday night and all saturday at the house. It was good, we interacted and not one confrontation. We had a very good talk on Friday night. She told me what she got from OM that I didnt give her. I was right on the money. She told her mom that the changes were very different and noticable with me.
So that is all good stuff, on Saturday night they go into London for a night out at the play world. Afterwards she gives the kids 2 options of going to her cousins or to her place. They all chose to go to her place. To be honest, that knda hurt, she could have driven back home, adn why after all we talked about including her saying she can walk away from OM and work on this, would she take them there?
I kept my calm and dropped off the card like normal today. I sent her a text wishing her luck on her Job interview today. She thanked me and said she enjoyed the weekend and that it was very nice not to spend time fighting. We flirted abit back and forth and I asked her to dinner on Tuesday. She accepted and told me to let her know if there was anything she could do.
So all in all I think it was a positive outcome. I have to stay focused on the goal. Not get sidetracked when things dont go my way. Im learning, its just harder sometimes then others.
No her mother was not happy she took the kids to OM house. As soon as the kids were home, she talked to all of them. She asked them all what was more important, mommy coming home or having OM as a friend. They all chose mommy coming home, so she told them that they couldnt have both. They needed to make a decision on what was more important and stick to it.
Not really anything the kids can do, their mom presented them with 2 options, they chose the most fun one as all they ever do at the OM place is go outside and do fun stuff (the bachelor isnt ready for 4 kids in his house just yet). But my MIL felt it imperative that the kids know if mom were to come home the OM would not be a friend. So know my kids have to choose between the 2. I am so staying as far away from this as I can. I told MIL she is on her own, and she agreed to tell her daughter what she has done.
