Looking for help with WAW - 2

[mza8]

Found out that W filed for D. She wasted no time. No wonder she has been so quiet the past couple of weeks. Unbelievable that in her email two weeks ago she hoped I was having a good week and the very next week she files for D. That's cruel and sick. Who in their right mind acts this way? God forbid she wait until the house is sold before she filed. She is unbelievable.

I tried, I really did. I left her alone for the past several months, I asked her for nothing, I "manned-up" and took care of the house and selling it. I keep going back to my question of not understanding how she can just leave the M after 19 years together and not even try to see if we could work on things.

I have a lot of thinking to do on how to proceed with D. It was surreal to see the W v H on the complaint. I never ever thought I would be in an adversarial proceeding with my W. Quite a day.