sounded like you were discreditting the advice of others by asking them where they are in their sitch. I'm sorry if that was incorrect.
I know it's hard in the beginning to grasp the concept of what others are telling us to do. It seemd so un-natural that we question the actions.
I know your working w/ a coach. And situations arise in between sessions. That's why you come here. It's all good. Keep an open mind about what have worked for others.
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