"I am trying to be a person that is kind and compassionate. I respect people. I respect you. Marriages need to have healthy boundries for security and safety. A week ago, I told you that I have a boundry that is non negotiable, and asked you to respect my boundry. You said you would think about it. A week is long enough. I am assking you to IMMEDIATLY stop all contact and your "friendship" and relationship with OM." I then said "a marriage deserves the respect and safety of a boundry. I am not asking for something unreasonable."
That's great, now what was the consequence of not behaving according to the boundary? She didn't follow it according to what you said, did she?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.