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Originally Posted By: Pensacolabroken
I also know the track records of past posters sitchs and so on.

What in the world does past track records have to do with your sitch?

You are waffling all over the place, looking for someone to tell you what you want to hear and apparently you have found it in your DB "coach".

You may be "listening" to the vets but you aren't following the words. You may be "stating" your boundaries but you aren't following through with it.

Originally Posted By: Pensacolabroken
"I am trying to be a person that is kind and compassionate. I respect people. I respect you. Marriages need to have healthy boundries for security and safety. A week ago, I told you that I have a boundry that is non negotiable, and asked you to respect my boundry. You said you would think about it. A week is long enough. I am assking you to IMMEDIATLY stop all contact and your "friendship" and relationship with OM." I then said "a marriage deserves the respect and safety of a boundry. I am not asking for something unreasonable."

To much talking going on here, especially since you have already "stated" your boundaries. Short and to the point..."I refuse to live in an open marriage."

Didn't someone already state to get some packing materials etc...?

Originally Posted By: Pensacolabroken
the result will be the same next week as it would be today

It could be worse, by next week she could be sleeping with him while you sit around twisting in the wind, "hoping" for the best and definitely not preparing for the worst.


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~