no hinky intended. I understand what you are stating. My question is my DB Coach has had 1500 sitch's and he believes that the Boundary IS important. No argument... but I have not allowed the time to watch the effects of my actions and insisting on the boundary.. she has not dropped him from FB true, but she was home all weekend after Friday. She has gone from demanding a divorce to putting it on pause. And she knows the boundary.
Are you saying I should just nuke the past steps that are in keeping with DB/DR to set the goal and monitor the results and DO WHAT IS WORKING.. to just demaning she comply with my boundary right now today? please explain because I am genuinly confused why you are in conflict with my DB coach.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
