she is using her choice to DROP the OM.. that is all.. that is the only thing I am prepared to allow a small amount of time for...
Cuz next time I'll really, really, really , reallllllyyy, rrrrrreeeeealllllllyyyyy mean it. Then you'll see. I'll not only let her eat cake, I'm baking it for her.
Don't you see she is starting to come around by setting a boundary. She won't respect you if you waffle. She wants to know her husband wants her to be faithful and won't let her behave badly towards him.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.