WAW 20 Years. Divorce to maybe possible R

[Pensacolabroken]

Time,

I have been kind in my tone with her. I also have told her it isnt punitive, it is just my respect for marriage.

I HAVE NOT CEDED MY BOUNDARY! The point is she KNOWS what the boundary is. I CHOOSE when to enforce it. I am also being patient as a few wise people have recommended and allow the WAW to KNOW I am not controlling her. IF I control her and she senses control... it will be be just like Serenity and Sandi point out, she will simply hide it and go underground. She is doing her Cost/Value/Analysis and if she senses Value and she sees that I am the package like Pookie said, she will come willingly. IF NOT I Force the Boundary. What is a week?

So Time Starsky, and Steve MC, what is the harm in a week? What? Why the alacrity? thoughts? And where are you with your Sitch?