Starsky- That really makes sense- to do what genuinely works for me. He is leaving me, and I have am the one who will continue to live with me for the rest of my life so I should do what works for me. Thanks for the advice. I feel like I am still trying to make decisions based on what will cause us to reconcile, but he is choosing not do to this at this time. So I guess living my life base on this hope is not a good idea.
