Originally Posted By: Freckle6
Rock, paper, scissors? Best 2 out of 3 gets their way. LOL

smile lol!

Originally Posted By: Freckle6
That pushed me in the other direction and I'd silently seethe and withdraw.

Wow - me too! And your example is very similar to what happened here too... only in reverse!

Originally Posted By: Freckle6
Was this a big issue fight or something smaller?

This is going to sound weird, but yes and no! He snapped at me for asking about something that I thought was important we talk about. So the snapping itself... not such a big thing in the grand scheme...he was hungry & tired from work. We did briefly discuss it the next day, when everyone was fed and rested. But he still didn't want to talk about it and come to something we both could live with ... that's the big thing. So I fear he's going back to his old ways ... withholding; dismissing; stonewalling.

I don't know what to make of it. Don't want to overreact and make something out of nothing, but don't want to sweep it under the rug either. I feel wary.


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.