she also said (several months ago): "If only you had handled things differently and not dated I know we could have worked it out
This stinks of BS. She is putting blame back on you for her mistakes.
WM is right, she now she you happy. She, herself is not happy with her decision and is trying to bring you down.
Stay strong and don't fall into her game.
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