GW, you're welcome. I am thrilled to see you in piecing
I was once in an open R (long distance with STBXH about a million years ago). I found it very stressful to juggle men...not my cup of tea at all. Having recently had two men giving me serious attention I know all too well how intoxicating that is. But it doesn't feel good to hurt people and not be honouring a relationship by giving oneself fully to it.
Marriage crisis, and even becoming a parent, shakes us to the core. It's a really good time for you to strengthen yourself as a man. I highly recommend this book: http://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1889762105 The more you can tune into your masculine essence, the better you will feel about yourself and the more your W will be attracted to you. Seriously, the author articulates things in a way that most women wouldn't be able to.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
