Here are the links to all of my old threads….for those who are interested in seeing anger, whining, pain, love, pretty much all of the sh!t that we the LBS’s go through.
Tomorrow W, the two L’s and I will sit down for our second pre-trial meeting. The first one according to my L went well and it is believed that this will be the last meeting before they just schedule a final hearing, which probably will not take place until the new year.
My goal at tomorrow’s meeting is to:
1) Get on paper and signed with blood her acceptance of the custody arrangement. 2) Try not to lose my shirt in alimony payments 3) Secure acceptance to move out 4) Get a better sense of exactly what all of this sh!t means for me
So those are the legal goals….I also would like to….
1) Laying out exactly how I will secure housing and furnish it 2) Depending on the debt/financial profile/outcome figure out a true budget. I have a few scenarios but until I can get a final number it is very hard to plan 3) Get back to cooking every weekend. I am a bit Food network fan and love to cook. 4) Get my Puerto Rican as* back to the gym with some frequency 5) Finish reading two books I have and then pick up a few more. 6) Join a local basket ball league 7) Get my next tattoo (that will be my second guys and I only have plans for one more – I was thinking of lips on my butt cheeks but decided against it – LOL)
As for my W…she continues to be pleasant and for some reason I get the sense that she wants to be “friends”. I’m actually not sure that friends would be my description of our R going forward BUT hey ya never know. What I do know is this….I am different – she is different – where that leaves us post D – your guess is as good as mine.
I hope everyone had a good weekend.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
