And one more thing... controlling comes across in the tone of your posts here.
This is my boundary and you will obey or I am done... again!
Compare that tone to this one:
"Look, you have some great qualities, and we have had some great times, but this whole business of you dating other men just isn't right, and I won't do it anymore, so I took the liberty of getting some boxes and packing some of your stuff up, and ...".
"Anyway, thanks for being so understanding about why this isn't working for me anymore".
