What it means is I was correct to issue the boundary. That helps her understand what my limit is. I also have to recognize where I have come already and acknowledge that I have not allowed time to watch and see if my efforts are getting results.
The boundary is not a 5 minute or 2 hour 4 day boundary. IF the results are not monitored and acheived the boundary is enforced.
He is suggesting a little patience. The movements of my WAW indicate to my coach and I can see also, that she is starting to approach the R. It has to be on her terms with her choice. THis is after all about me not controlling the outcome.. if I force her to drop OM, she could just lie about it.
I have the luxury of time. Hell 1 week ago there was zero chance today there is a definite maybe possible..
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
