because when a person wants to be with you they show and tell you. they say things like "when will i see you again" and "you should spend the night." They talk about the future and over look your past ways. they donot hope you find someone else.
in no way is this discouragement. it is reality.
This is part of what I'm confused about. In the course of dinner she also said that she wanted this to be a once a month practice....that she wanted to have dinner at my house as well....that she had no difficulty with my coming over to see the children whenever I wanted. Back last fall, when she knew I was dating, she was quite unhappy with it and made repeated cracks (ie sarcastic reference to my being "Casanova"). She also said (several months ago): "If only you had handled things differently and not dated I know we could have worked it out.".
